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down for evaluations from members of the
Society of Women Engineers, students at
Cornell University,
students, staff and faculty at Texas A&M, and staff at
the University of Massachusetts at Amherst.
Members of the Boston chapter of the Society of Women
Engineers gave the presentation an Excellent rating (4.97
out of a possible 5.0) and offered this feedback:
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loved the
quotations + stories - great way to make a point real
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This speaker
was excellent. She brought forth a lot of points that I
was definitely able to relate to. Thank You!
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Great topic
- I thought I was the only person who felt this way
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Great -
absolutely amazing
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Couldn't be
better
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Speaker was
great - very informative and entertaining.
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Topic was
very good - lot of insights
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Outstanding!!!
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I loved the
topic and speaker.
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Humor is a
great way to take the sting out of a sensitive/ tender
topic for a lot of women. Thanks.
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Very
uplifting and inspiring
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Excellent
presentation, great topic - thanks!
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Presenter
was amazing -- does she do therapy?
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Fantastic! I
enjoyed the topic, speaker, and the women I met
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Absolutely
great topic. Should definitely do it again for people
who couldn't make it. Great to know its not just me.
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I'm so glad
I came. This couldn't have come at a better time.
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Great
speaker and topic
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I thought
the presentation was very well delivered, but I just
didn't agree/couldn't relate to all of her points

Here
is what graduate students at Cornell
University said they liked best about How
to Feel as Bright and Capable as Everyone Seems to Think You
Are:
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The frankness, the anecdotes and being around
others who had the same feelings
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Get to talk to other people in small group and
the presentation
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I like the 10 ways to interrupt the impostor
syndrome; I think I now know of ways to help myself
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Anecdotes, having someone else tell us it’s ok;
comments from audience
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Humor
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Valerie's sense of humor and approach
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The sense that other people are dealing with
these same issues
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Validation to how I feel
Lots of examples that we can relate to. Not a
lot of theory.
Feeling that I’m not the only one with these feelings and
realizing that it’s within my power to change my
perspective. Listening to other people’s experiences
and fears really helped.
Use of examples; tactics/strategies presented
at end.
Sense of “I’m not alone.” Practical tips for
how to overcome this syndrome.
The fact that it put words to the problems I’ve
been experiencing. Talking about the situations really
helps to focus attention on how to change them.
The accuracy of some of the comments with
respect to my own behavior was astonishing;
friendliness.
It was very revealing. I felt a bit embarrassed
but then realized most people in this room felt
similarly.
A lot of things: the fact that differences
between men/women was emphasized. Open atmosphere about
common important problems.
Dr. Young’s presentation style.
The charismatic style of the speaker made the
message fun to follow.
I was able to identify some of the reasons why
I fear being successful or being the center of
attention.
Realizing that others have the same negative
feelings. I was not aware of the “impostor” syndrome,
despite taking many classes in Psych as an undergrad.
Moderator’s conversational, humane approach;
personality
Sources of fraudulent feelings; answers. I do
not often have the opportunity to hear a speaker for two
hours and not get restless, thanks.
Was heartening to see lots of people had
similar doubts and I wasn’t the only one. Dr. Young also
made people feel comfortable with talking openly.
Validation of my feelings! Thanks!
Great speaker, good anecdotes, very
interactive. It’s easy to understand and relate to my
life.
Group work, descriptions of impostors.
The whole thing!

Here is what
undergraduate
students at Cornell
University said they liked best about How
to Feel as Bright and Capable as Everyone Seems to Think You
Are:
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I felt
like we were talking about me. Lots of ideas.
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I liked the friendly environment, no pressure or competition
to say the right thing. I liked
Valerie. She is a great speaker!
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The
speaker is lively and helpful. The content was good.
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I
learned a lot and it will probably be very helpful.
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Anecdotes
of other people’s situations, comments. Let me know
this is common, gained insight that we’re all sort of
making it up as we go along anyway. No one has this
objective rulebook.
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Stories
and examples about others. The presentation was very
interesting. Dr. Young made it fun to listen to but mostly I was able to listen to what she said.
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Really
liked/loved the examples. Good to hear others, human
situations. Good group work, worksheets. Glad there’s
a follow up. Really like the way these steps can be
applied to different issues.
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The
anecdotal stories that you provided to explain and
illustrate your points.
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Interactive,
got to talk with other participants and with Dr. Young.
Good examples.
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It
put a word to how I feel. It was nice to see and hear
others feeling the same way. I feel now I can recognize
it and deal with it.
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How
it was presented; with breaks to talk about topics.
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The
stories helped me to realize that it’s not just me.
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Putting
words to what I felt.
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The
stories that helped further illustrate different points.
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The
group discussions.
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It
made me think about myself and why I think this way.
Specific examples were very helpful.
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There
were a lot of stories/situations that really hit home
for me. I think that my favorite most useful part was
recognizing the negative voices and acknowledging what I
would rather they say.
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Great
Orator!
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I
loved the humor. Valerie’s pep, and breaking up into
small “sharing” groups.
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The
content. I learned that things I’ve been thinking are
common. The presenter. Dr. Young was interesting and
entertaining.
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That
you
speak to all levels of “impostors,” from the very
severe to mild cases. And that you define this
psychological issue as being an individualistic problem.
Granted you see “impostors” in the female gender
more than male, but it is present in all races, both
genders, all levels of society.
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Specific
examples, stories, sharing and listening to others.

Here
is what
Texas
A&M undergraduates, graduates, and faculty said they liked best about
How to Feel as Bright and Capable as Everyone Seems to
Think You Are:
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Good
blend of interaction, personal thought and lecture.
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Great
presentation style.
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Good
examples -- make it more personal, I can take it easier.
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Subject
was very appropriate. Love it!
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Great
sense of humor -- should be a stand-up comic.
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Like
all the associations with news anchors and other people
we could relate to.
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I
enjoyed her presentation style.
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Enjoyed
hearing the boy/girl research.
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This
program gave me some ideas to turn the ball
around a little.
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I
came just to spend time with my mentor. I am glad I
came! It is great material to discuss in future emails.
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I
learned a lot about me.
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Putting
comedy into the presentation.
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Personalization
-- the talk to Aggieland.
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Enthusiasm
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Addressed
problematic behaviors and beliefs of women before they
find themselves stuck in dead end jobs, with
abusive spouses, [or otherwise] settling for less than they desire in
their own heart.
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Topic
was thoroughly explained.
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Thank
you for the references.
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Liked
the stories and the exercises.
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I
learned people I thought were successful say they feel
like impostors and then got a look at me from the inside.
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Made
me realize what I am doing in my professional life and
how to correct the error of my ways.
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Humor
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Good
definition/separation of competence, failure/mistakes
and success
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Feeling
comfortable with these feelings
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Great
personality
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Great
examples
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I
realized I was an impostor
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On
a personal note: [Valerie is] an obviously talented,
smart and accomplished woman who is approachable
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Informative
-- I liked her List of Rights
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Excellent
presentation -- knows her subject. [She] had me pegged to a
tee
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Excellent
speaker
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Interaction
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I've
never been to a seminar like this before. Two years ago
my life was in shambles. Over the last two years, I've
put it back together but always thought as I got to the
next level that it was happening too quickly and coming
too easily. This seminar gave me insight into why I
think and feel what I do. The answers aren't easy,
but at least I know where I can get them. Thanks!
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Self-realization
exercises
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Good
presentation
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Good
content
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Good
stories, great exercises; too bad we didn't have more
time to do [them]
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Good
further reading list
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Nice
size for group
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Good
idea to research further from books mentioned
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I
loved the seminar but wished it would have been a
day-long or longer seminar. This is very helpful.
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A
lot of examples

Here
is what
University
of Massachusetts staff members said they liked best about
How to Feel as Bright and Capable as Everyone Seems to
Think You Are:
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The
excellent facilitation that allowed many new thoughts
and resolve to come forward. Working in small groups was
great. The what now phase was the best part.
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I
loved the childhood success/failure exercise
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The
worksheets really got you thinking
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Groups,
talking, humor. The interactive groups were nice.
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All
of the presentations and talking to others
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Validation and renewed purpose
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Framework
for re-thinking/reviewing how I perceive standards
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[Knowing
that] many people feel the same way
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Adequate
time to get into both group (small/large) discussion and
individual exploration
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The
whole approach to change. Writing it down.
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New
resolve to make changes in my life
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Will
use some of the exercises for both job and personal
issues
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The
writing/introspective aspects and the
teacher/facilitator was just right; get her
again!
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It
was great

Professional Women attending a presentation sponsored by
the Business and Professional Women’s Association,
Bernardsville, New Jersey chapter:
When I
attend presentations like this, my expectation is to
come away with one or two nuggets; pieces of information
that resonate with me and act as a catalyst for my
personal growth. I liken your program to a hail
storm! Everything resonated fast, furiously and the
best of all, with a great sense of humor.
Theresa Creedon
President and Chief Change Agent, RETHINK, LLC.
Good job! Enjoyed your
presentation today. More importantly, I learned things
that will make a difference in my life. Thank you.
Cynthia Leighton Lange
owner, Software Enterprise Ltd.

From Michigan Women Psychologists
Very
practical & accessible. Useful for self and
professionally. Hard to find this balance.
GREAT
WORKSHOP – THANK YOU!
It was
great to have such a small group. A very personal
conference.
Really
enjoyed the participation & interaction & experiences
with others.
Good
Job.
Good
choice! Enjoyed it immensely.
To
learn more about bringing How to Feel as Bright and
Capable as Everyone Seems to Think You Are to your campus or organization,
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