Feel
like a fraud?
Workplace might be to blame
Even
accomplished workers can fall prey to ‘impostor phenomenon’
Saturday, December 24, 2005
By Virginia Galt
It’s
not uncommon for high achievers to sometimes harbour fears
of inadequacy. Indeed, some organizational psychologists
suggest that a little uncertainty is good if it spurs us on
to greater efforts.
However, some workplaces are so “aggressively competitive”
that they make even the most accomplished employees feel
unworthy of their success, says Diane Zorn, a faculty
development director at York University who has conducted
research on the debilitating effects of “impostor
phenomenon” -- the constant fear of being exposed as a fraud
despite a solid record of achievement.
The
higher a person rises in an organization, the more he or she
feels expected to “know it all,” says Ms. Zorn, who has
conducted heavily attended workshops on the impostor
phenomenon at Canadian universities for the past eight years
and is currently working on a book.
Academics are particularly vulnerable -- universities are
far less collegial than they might appear from the outside,
she says. But any demanding workplace culture, where high
achievers are left on their own to sink or swim, can leave
even the best employees feeling insecure -- to the detriment
of their happiness and their ultimate potential, says Ms.
Zorn, whose title is course director in philosophy at the
Atkinson faculty of liberal and professional studies at
York.
The
impostor phenomenon is “not just psychological” -- it is
rooted in workplace culture, she emphasizes.
An
intensely competitive culture will reinforce any self-doubts
a person might have if there is a lack of mentoring and a
lack of collaboration, Ms. Zorn says. “The idea that no one
there is going to help you . . . leads to feelings of
isolation. That is often the case when you get into higher
up positions.”
In the
university setting, few interdisciplinary research projects
are truly interdisciplinary, she says.
“They
usually involve a lot of separate investigators -- a lead
one and a bunch of co-investigators -- who go off and do
their own thing and come back and meet and publish in their
own area.”
In the
business environment, as well, “I question how much genuine
collaboration there is.”
Ms.
Zorn says that when she instructs business students, “there
are a lot of problems with group work. It is not as
collaborative as it seems. There are often a few people
trying to run the show.”
So
given the realities of many work environments -- the
competition, the politics, the occasional The Globe and
Mail: Feel like a fraud? Workplace might be to blame
putdowns -- how does one move ahead with confidence? There
are steps an individual can take to bolster self-confidence
and take credit for his or her achievements, rather than
writing off success to good luck, being in the right place
at the right time or undeserved promotion by a sympathetic
supervisor, she says.
The
first step, says Ms. Zorn, is to recognize whether you are
suffering from a touch of impostor phenomenon.
Do you
always deflect compliments about your work? Do you feel your
success is undeserved and you will some day be found out?
Are you afraid to ask questions for fear of looking stupid?
Are you constantly comparing yourself to the superstars in
your field instead of acknowledging your own
accomplishments? If your self-confidence is a little shaky,
or even if it isn’t, find a mentor, Ms. Zorn suggests.
If you
cannot find someone to trust inside your organization, go
outside and find someone whose judgment you respect to try
out ideas.
In
academia, some PhD candidates are now seeking out
“dissertation coaches” to make sure they are on solid ground
and that their work will stand up to rigorous academic
challenge.
In
business, more employees are turning to professional
associations, outside coaches or informal support networks
for honest feedback on whether they are on the right track,
Ms. Zorn says.
Organizational psychologist Guy Beaudin of Toronto-based RHR
International Ltd., says that, in a well-run organization,
people are promoted on merit.
But
there are situations where those who get promoted really are
“faking it,” Dr. Beaudin adds.
“You
will run across individuals who have been able to get by on
interpersonal skills or their ability to play the political
games within organizations and find themselves in roles of a
great deal of prominence without really having the hard
skills to deliver,” he says.
These
people will often mask their incompetence by adopting an
overbearing management style.
“Their
whole leadership style is predicated on the fact that they
don’t have either the skills or knowledge or expertise to
truly do their job well, so their style is to be very
demanding of their staff,” Dr. Beaudin says.
In
most cases, however, candidates chosen for promotion will
grow into their new roles, given the proper support, he
says.
It
takes time to gain confidence in a new role or a new project
-- nobody should expect to have it mastered on day one, nor
feel like an impostor because they do not know all the
answers, Dr. Beaudin says.
“For
someone in a new role, the first couple of months are
critical. It’s the time to be really intentional and
disciplined about getting all the information you need. In
the beginning, people will give you a lot of latitude to ask
a lot of dumb questions,” Dr. Beaudin says.
“It
gets more difficult after four or five months when people
feel like you really should know what’s going on here.”
It is
normal to have doubts, especially when taking on a new role,
he adds.
“And
some of that is actually quite beneficial. It can spur
people to be more creative, to come up with better
solutions. When you have people who feel they have to prove
themselves, they will actually work harder and want to
deliver a better performance,” he says.
“But
when it goes too far, it leads to the impostor syndrome.”
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Impostor syndrome
Are you suffering from impostor syndrome? These are
some of the signs, according to York University
instructor Diane Zorn:
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Feelings of incompetence.
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A belief that you don’t deserve success.
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Feeling like a fraud.
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Fear of being “found out.”
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Don’t take credit for your own accomplishments.
So what can you do about it? A website developed for
those who suffer from such feelings, http://www.impostersyndrome.com,
offers the following advice: Speak up, share your
feelings. You will find you are not alone.
Separate feelings from fact. Everyone feels stupid
from time to time. “Just because you feel stupid,
doesn’t mean you are.”
Don’t be such a perfectionist. Forgive yourself when
the inevitable mistake happens.
Learn to ask for help. “Recognize you have just as
much right as the next person to be wrong, have an
off day or ask for assistance.”
Recognize that everyone who starts something new
feels off-base in the beginning. Tell yourself: “I
may not know all the answers, but I am smart enough
to find them out.”
Take some risks. “Instead of considering ‘winging
it’ as proof of your ineptness, learn to do what
many high achievers do -- view it as a skill.”
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